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fivestar562 66M
284 posts
2/19/2018 5:55 am

 You did your part and shown an interest to talk. That's all needed to start communication.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
2/19/2018 6:01 am

 Quite the BONUS pic!!

I'm impressed that you took the initiative, and wonder if you're not calling it a fail a bit too quickly.

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TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
2/19/2018 6:09 am

 He's not a standard member is he? (The 5th grader in me snickers every time I type "standard member")


Johnybluu 48M
14 posts
2/19/2018 6:10 am

 Do you know if you read your message. Is he gay? I'm sure there's a lot of things that factor into this. He might not have had time to message you or he might not have had time to see the message. He might be married and can only check it every so often. Or he might have just not been interested. That's the way it goes


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
2/19/2018 6:23 am

 Not getting a reply to your email is fucking with you huh?
You didn't wait long before you made a blog post about it.

Maybe he treats emails the same way you do.


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
2/19/2018 7:15 am

 Less is more . U have to leave room for him to keep guessing .


HarshawH 51M  
6 posts
2/19/2018 7:24 am

 I would have appreciated such an open and inviting email. And you look incredible in the picture!

So never stop reaching out. Not everyone here is a match. You just keep being the fun, warm happy person you are!


Baudy50 71M
Ask me for a photo

2/19/2018 7:25 am

 The email here is a bit problematic to say the least! Try again with "Meet me on IM ..." as the lead. In notifications a standard member gets about that much but blurred out on the site itself. There is always the hotlist and tipping, small numbers but often. Good luck AdultFriendFinder doesn't always make this easy, they make it about the $$$


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/19/2018 9:11 am

 Yes .You're right, it is a little different for men.Like night and day or full and empty.
Now, do that, x 100+. Oh, add to it that you get no feedback on what you wrote. The only feedback is no answer. Build on nothing.

I kinda look at it as doing a job- with no instructions on how to do it. Do it wrong, you're gone. Don't do it, you're gone. You failed. No, you aren't allowed to know what you did or said wrong. You're not even allowed to know that you were wrong.

Do it, twenty times, it gets aggravating. Do it, fifty times, it gets discouraging. Do it, a hundred times. Realise that you've wasted hundreds of hours writing messages, you say screwit, go find something else to devote your time to.

Some men of your era aren't happy with the way things are. It truly sucks to try to guess where you might be coming from.
Using more than all the road!


SparePrickBH 63M
103 posts
2/19/2018 9:48 am

 Thanks for this post, it's refreshing to know some woman do still take the initiative.

I was under the impression that woman who state "looking for..." actually mean "waiting for it to fall in my lap" which is not the sort of woman I'm attracted to unfortunately.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
2/19/2018 3:43 pm

 WOTW2016 replies on 2/19/2018 9:32 am:
Oh I'm not fucked with, haha! Far from it. It was just a way to empathize with the guys. But I wonder if it's taking it's toll on you, lol.

All my emails get answered my dear.



pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
2/19/2018 8:31 pm

 Love your sexy and cute pic! Hopefully he realizes what a terrific woman you are. I've had some good conversations through emails with some women, but no meet ups came from it. I guess I'm just here to show off my body, lol!
Funny women are incredibly sexy!


Yours_4A_knight 59M

2/19/2018 10:36 pm
    Quoting  :
Because I basically don't get messages I can with confidence say that I reply to all messages I get, even if only to say that, "hey like my profile says I am not into men."

But I am a special case and I am virtually certain that it has to do with where I live and it being a dating wasteland
Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

2/19/2018 10:45 pm

 People, yes even men, have an idea of what they are looking for and given the broad scope of people who are on here, in reality, when I am in a moment of weakness considering reaching out to someone on here, my first consideration is not how interested I am in them, but realistically how interested they would be in me.

Maybe you included the reasonable match caveat in your post and I missed it but part of the reason he didn't answer is much like the same reason you don't answer some emails, avoiding the long defense of why you are not interested in them, as wonderful as they might feel themselves.
Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
2/20/2018 7:39 am

 I think more women should take the initiative. After all, it is they who know exactly what they want.
Thoughts from the Garden...


HONOLULU365 53M
61 posts
3/4/2018 2:14 pm

 You're very beautiful and sexy !
Kisses.


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