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Having a great time  

Sweetnsexysarah6 53F
16 posts
10/17/2018 3:50 pm
Having a great time

My friend is so good to me treats me like a queen spoils me like a princess.. Always a perfect gentleman.. Seems like lots of men have forgotten how to do that. They want us to treat them as Kings but yet do not even know enough to open a car door for a lady or to bring flowers to her on a date. All the little things that make a woman feel special.. Men if you treat us right we will you as well.
Have a beautiful day .... kisses..😚😚😚😚
Oceana1969 58F  
442 posts
10/17/2018 6:09 pm

 Bravo young lady!!! Men have forgotten how to treat a lady.


BiGDD0069 39M

10/17/2018 7:23 pm

 All women deserved to be treated like that.


badideanumberone 52M
Ask me for a photo

10/17/2018 8:29 pm

 seems like reasonable advice


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/18/2018 3:01 am

 Okay... I have a comment about this kind of thinking , or expectations , from women. Are you confused?

My friend is so good to me treats me like a queen spoils me like a princess.. .... Could be many reasons for his odd reaction to you. Three possible reasons: Maybe you're good to him, maybe he's a mama's boy, maybe he is 70 plus years old.

Seems like lots of men have forgotten how to do that..... No, not forgotten. Told not to do that. You girls are one of us now. Why would a man , not intimately acquainted with a woman and in good standing with each other, give her special attention undeserving?

They want us to treat them as Kings....No we don't. We're not naive about this , like women seem to be.

but yet do not even know enough to open a car door .... Why? What for?........what happened to all that, "Equality" stuff? All that, "We're strong women"?, "Empowered women"?, "Down with patriarchy"?....

How can women today, women younger than 70, expect any man to to give her special treatment undeserved?

What's your game honey? You want to be empowered. You're empowered. But you want a car door opened for you? .... No. You open it. You're out with a guy, because you want to be with him, the man, the person. He invited you out, generally for sex, so you accept because you want to have sex with him. Right? .... So why all the pretentious expectations of him having to play gentleman. Isn't that putting him down? Making fun of him? Seeing how stupid and foolish you can get him to behave?

for a lady .... What? Are you over 70? No. So you're not a "Lady"... you're a woman, today. Didn't your mom make you listen to that Helen Reddy song about women.

or to bring flowers to her on a date. .... Why? He wants to have sex with you. You accepted his invitation. Why does he have to present you with flowers?

All the little things that make a woman feel special..... ha... are you serious? A man. A man you are interested in being with, invited you out to have sex with him. Doesn't that make you feel special?

Men if you treat us right we will you as well..... No.

How would you feel if a man said to you, "If you treat me right, I will you, as well".

See how ridiculous that is?

You go out with a guy, whom you want to be with, and see how you grow together. He doesn't need to bow to your ultimatum.


Sweetnsexysarah6 53F
5 posts
10/18/2018 5:09 am

 I am still in my 40s..I believe in treat each other good.. I will not accept a date from a man who is look just for sex from me. I do not put out on a first date most of the time. Has it happens yes.. it is never my plan to do so.. If I do it must be because I feel a strong connection to the man and he really made an effort to show me that he felt the same toward me. Yes I may be a bit old fashioned. I believe in respecting yourself as well as your partner. If you hold the door for me I will for you. He's younger than 60s as well.. we bout believe in being good and kind to each other. People have forgotten how to do this...little things go a long way on bouthsides.. like stake and bj day to show him you appreciate all his hard work.. lol.. or flower just because..
Have a beautiful day .... kisses..😚😚😚😚


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/18/2018 4:21 pm
    Quoting Sweetnsexysarah6:
    I am still in my 40s..I believe in treat each other good.. I will not accept a date from a man who is look just for sex from me. I do not put out on a first date most of the time. Has it happens yes.. it is never my plan to do so.. If I do it must be because I feel a strong connection to the man and he really made an effort to show me that he felt the same toward me. Yes I may be a bit old fashioned. I believe in respecting yourself as well as your partner. If you hold the door for me I will for you. He's younger than 60s as well.. we bout believe in being good and kind to each other. People have forgotten how to do this...little things go a long way on bouthsides.. like stake and bj day to show him you appreciate all his hard work.. lol.. or flower just because..
I am still in my 40s..I believe in treat each other good.. ... You both can treat each other good without compromising his dignity, or making him disrespect himself.

I will not accept a date from a man who is looking just for sex from me........ Yes you will, when you're excited enough.

Anyway, on this site, compared to maybe , "Eharmony", the men here want to have sex with you practically immediately, compared to eharmony.

Your picture you use here, is inviting sex. For instance, you would not use this same picture on eharmony.

I do not put out on a first date most of the time. ... But you do,..... sometimes, and then you are on a date.

If I do it must be because I feel a strong connection to the man.... Sure. You are turned on.

and he really made an effort to show me that he felt the same toward me. ..... His effort was accomplished by inviting you out. He invites you out because he wants to eventually have sex with you soon.

Yes I may be a bit old fashioned..... No you're not. You just want special attention without deserving special attention. For about the last 45 years women have made their case for equality with men very clear.... now you need to honor what you've gained. For instance, if a man said he was old fashion, he would be called a sexist.

I believe in respecting yourself as well as your partner. ...You really don't, because if you did, you would not want him to open doors for you, and you would pay for your own meals. ....Also if you respected the man, you'd just invite him in for sex, because that's why he is inviting you out. Of course you have the right to say , "No", and not be his date, but only hangout with him. But then he risks being "Friendzoned".

If you hold the door for me I will for you..... No , see that's an ultimatum again.. I can get my own door, and so can you. And you're not respecting me, if you expect me to open a door for you.

Likewise, I would not be respecting myself if I open a door for you, an able bodied woman. .........Why don't you understand the concept of being socially equal? Women are no longer entitled to certain social behaviors undeserved.

He's younger than 60s as well..... Okay, then that leaves only two possibilities...."Maybe you're good to him, maybe he's a mama's boy, "...maybe both.

we bout believe in being good and kind to each other. ....Well that's very good , so why are you on this site if you have a good man in your life? Did you know there is a woman on this site, who was married, and had two men she got with, from this site, when her husband was not around, and she's been blogging since 2015, but just a few days ago, she was told he is divorcing her. She's up shit creek. ...............So if you have a good man, and he still thinks you're a good woman, maybe you shouldn't be here.

People have forgotten how to do this [be good and kind to each other]...... Nobody has forgotten how to be good and kind to each other. But to be "Good and kind" , can be done without compromising self respect in public.
.

like stake and bj day to show him you appreciate all his hard work..... oh no... really? Don't do that......No, there should be no Steak and bj day. That's ridiculous for him.
If he wants steak or a bj, he should just tell you, "I want a blowjob" or a steak...

lol.. or flower just because...... So give him a bj or steak...or both..... just because.

.....

Good communicating you. Have a good Thursday night.


Sweetnsexysarah6 53F
5 posts
10/19/2018 4:34 am

 Heathen_G why are you such a negative person. He and I have a great FWB relationship. Of course I'll hold the door open if I walk through it first for the person behind me. Of course I'm willing to pay for dinner at times as well. a connection to me is much more than a physical one.. i try to be kind and good to all people...
Have a beautiful day .... kisses..😚😚😚😚


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/19/2018 3:42 pm
    Quoting Sweetnsexysarah6:
    Heathen_G why are you such a negative person. He and I have a great FWB relationship. Of course I'll hold the door open if I walk through it first for the person behind me. Of course I'm willing to pay for dinner at times as well. a connection to me is much more than a physical one.. i try to be kind and good to all people...
why are you such a negative person. ... There was no negativity there. This is 2018. Our society is suppose to be one of human equality. [That's positive]. When you arrive by car, you can open your own door and step out. That's positive. When you go back to the car, you can open your door and step into the vehicle. That's positive.

He and I have a great FWB relationship. .... Okay, wonderful...so what is that suppose to mean? If you go out for pizza after sex, you pay for half of the pizza.

Of course I'll hold the door open if I walk through it first for the person behind me. ...Why? If they are tail-gating you, sure. The doors open , they follow you in. If they are two or more steps behind you, ....they got the door.

Of course I'm willing to pay for dinner at times as well.....Why? You can just pay for your own meal all the time. You have an income, he has an income.... no need to pay for the others meal.

a connection to me is much more than a physical one...... I understand that, and you can have a connection without the guy demeaning himself .

. i try to be kind and good to all people....... Okay, then don't set up situations where the man you are with , is put into a position of being inferior, even if he insists.

What I've mentioned is all social positive behavior, today. This is our society now.


bmt04079 60M
80 posts
10/20/2018 1:29 pm

 Sex is just better with mutual respect.


Deepdicker692012 56M
24 posts
10/24/2018 6:14 am

 Nice!


ludwig202 72M
11894 posts
10/18/2019 5:11 am

 you are wonderfully elegant and sexy


19hotdipper451 63M

12/6/2020 2:46 pm

 Even though I am a man, I have to agree with you, most men have no idea what so ever how to treat a woman like a lady. They expect their woman to always be there for them and always ready to serve them and do their bidding, and then wonder why their woman are so unhappy or even wandering on them, or deny them bedroom favors.


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