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No Reply Is a Message Also! 8/10/2014
That's what the blogger wrote on my blog awhile back:
"No reply is also a reply." I wonder about that
really? I mean, I know it could be, but I also have found that
days later after I have made an inquiry with someone by sending
them an introductory email, they respond and not always
in a negative fashion.
"I've just been so inundated by emails."
one sweet lady wrote. Another said she ...
5 Comments, 40 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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How to walk away gracefully? 8/10/2014
So, Im just wondering what you all thought the best way to
bow out of a set up 'meeting' with another member
is. For instance, I sent a lady a message, things went well,
decided to meet, and I had second thoughts so I sent a respectful
reply saying id changed my mind. Then i got BLOWN up. Didnt
think that'd happen but hey, maybe its just a one in
a hundred kinda thing...
4 Comments, 105 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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confused i am 7/20/2014
so many times men complain they do not get a reply from women
either by email or on the IM chat.
well explain this.... as i have just been lectured by an
18yr old boy that i was rude for accepting his chat request
and explaining my preferences to him, several times
he was then abusive and told me i was wasting his time by accepting
the chat
so we get criticized when we ...
11 Comments, 141 Views,
22 Votes
,5.41 Score
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fitness 7/5/2014
lets try and look after our bodies. at least lets try. its
always sexy to our partners
2 Comments, 25 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Consent is Sexy! 6/29/2014
Consent is sexy! People should feel free to do or not do anything
in bed/the shower/while tied up/in public/etc. Besides,
how awesome is it when you get to hear them tell you "Yeah,
I want it!"
2 Comments, 22 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Everyone On AdultFriendFinder has been really, really polite to me 6/13/2014
People have either said no thanks and said why, or they've
said, later and then contacted me later to get together.
I love this site, it's a great place to meet people.
I've tried some other sites and didn't have any
luck whatsoever.
6 Comments, 58 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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When you say no to a couple 6/12/2014
Why is it that when you tell a couple that is trying to get
you to come in and have sex with the female in the duo "no",
they just can't accept that and feel the need to offer
you reasons why it would be a good thing?
I personally feel that when you marry someone, its not to
share them, at least not sexually and if I express that to
you, that should be your signal to back off... Respect ...
3 Comments, 59 Views,
10 Votes
,4.18 Score
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rejection 5/8/2014
girsl probably reject a lot here.. i mena seriously they
must get like 100 messages a day and they get to pick who they
wanna fuckk.... isnt it tru ladies....
1 Comments, 45 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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The power of saying NO / YES / MAYBE - and the courage it takes... 4/26/2014
Ok, so you are not interested. How about just say: "Thanks
- but no thanks". Believe me, it is more elegant to
say No Thanks, than to disappear after countless exchanges,
or a lame excuse, like "the ate my _ _ _ _ _".
We are all adults here (ok, that's a long shot). The
fact is that there's power in saying no. Where negativity
is an ongoing attitude, No is a moment of clear choice. It
announces, ...
5 Comments, 78 Views,
12 Votes
,1.92 Score
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It's rare when we say no thanks, but when we do we're honest with them 1/23/2014
Be nice, be up front and be truthful to everyone.
We've had a hard time with three or four single guys
- our add clearly states no single men but they continue
to message us and one, after being told no for the fourth
time went off on a rage on annie accusing her of being a slut,
a and a cheating wife....we reported him and his profile
soon disappeared from AdultFriendFinder.
Since then I ...
4 Comments, 66 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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It's rare when we say no thanks, but when we do we're honest with them 1/23/2014
Be nice, be up front and be truthful to everyone.
We've had a hard time with three or four single guys
- our add clearly states no single men but they continue
to message us and one, after being told no for the fourth
time went off on a rage on annie accusing her of being a slut,
a and a cheating wife....we reported him and his profile
soon disappeared from AdultFriendFinder.
Since then I ...
3 Comments, 41 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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If there is just no attraction... 1/8/2014
One of the tougher reasons to just say, especially if a woman
on this site is showing interest and there is just no attraction
towards her, but in the few cases, I have tried to be honest
instead of just leaving it go. Thoughts?
4 Comments, 83 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Why don't people do this? 1/3/2014
When you try to im someone and they just ignore you it is really
frustrating. Could they just say, "thanks, I'm
not interested."? I guess the problem is if they accept
the im at all then if they try to say no the other person will
keep bothering them. What do you think? Is ignoring the
right thing to do, or should you at least respond with a "no
thank you"?
8 Comments, 79 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score
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Safe Sex 12/11/2013
Play Safe!!!!
2 Comments, 27 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Nothing said. 10/30/2013
We met with a couple from AdultFriendFinder and had a nice dinner and good
conversation. During the course of the evening, however
I think they realized that neither of us were sexually attracted
each other. We ended the night in a pleasant manner and departed.
We see each other on occasion at a local club and speak and
go our separate way with nothing ever said about swinging
or swapping. So sometime you ...
3 Comments, 59 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Question, Would You Rather Be Told No Up Front 10/30/2013
We have a couple we like and have been talking to on a regular
basis for nearly two years. Both are extremely hot and both
tell us that they want to take their first plunge with us,
which I believe, but Danny is skeptical.
I say they're afraid to take the plunge, that it is erotica
for them to talk to us, share pictures with us, talk of swapping;
of their fantasies.
However, ...
8 Comments, 139 Views,
14 Votes
,4.10 Score
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I have a difficult time saying "no thanks" 8/20/2013
In general, women that I meet via AdultFriendFinder fall into three main
categories: "Yes!", "Not great, but
she'll do" and "No $%#@ way!!".
You can call me shallow. You can call me a sex fiend or a predator. I don't think so - just an ordinary guy looking for some
fun.
The twist is that I'm a gentleman. I don't abuse the women that I meet. I treat them well - with respect and try to keep ...
3 Comments, 93 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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confused 8/10/2013
i am not into sex chat and stuff at all, but i did chat a lot
with a girl from this site...for about a couple of months...she
kept postponing to meet me due to some family emergencies..but
loved talking to me...now she has taken some time out due
to some family crisis and asked me to wait. is it working
for me or not?
2 Comments, 79 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Implied "No Thanks" 7/12/2013
I can accept a "no thank you". Its clear, and
easily understood.
What ALOT of us men get unfortunately, are NO responses.
If the man actually took time to write a paragraph that didnt
include WANNA FUCK, or COME FUCK NOW, then shouldnt you return the common courtesy
of a response?
NO response is just rude. If you had time to read it, you have
time to type a response.
4 Comments, 95 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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Why are We Women so Dificult? 4/29/2013
We girls don't know how good we have it. We certainly
don't appreciate all the men making an effort to try
to talk to us. Even when the men are nice to us we still treat
them like shit, that's not fair at all, its completely
wrong, and I agree with the men that we don't deserve
to be praised like we are on this site. Most of the guys on
here aren't half bad, Take it Coming from a Female.
SO THIS ...
8 Comments, 121 Views,
17 Votes
,5.67 Score
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Re: Rude People 4/9/2013
I understand what your saying. I made it pretty clear in
my profile that I'm a virgin and all the guys who read
it automaticly assume that i'm looking to lose it.
I've been known to not respond to some messages sent
to me too. With a site like this, a lot of guys on here just
assume that the women on here also want just sex and even
more than that. I feel if you tell a guy "No Thanks" ...
2 Comments, 67 Views,
17 Votes
,6.66 Score
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No thanks is ok but at least answer 3/29/2013
So you send a message and wait and wait..is the person not
interested? Have they read your message? People should
at least say no thanks..my opinion
11 Comments, 102 Views,
11 Votes
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How do you politely say NO? 3/7/2013
Just because I'm a guy it's assumed I want to sleep
with every woman I see. How do you let someone down gently?
I mean sometimes it's not about straight up attraction
or whatever, it can be about other stuff that's going
on.
I don't want to hurt feelings, but then again I don't
want to go home hating myself either...
Advice?
4 Comments, 55 Views,
4 Votes
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Why? 3/7/2013
I have come to notice that most people on this site are either
to full of them selves to be polite or just don't care.
Personally, being ignored is a personal pet peeve and is
the quickest way to piss me off. When you get a email or IM
from me and take the time to look at my profile even if you
are not interest you could do me the courtesy of saying sorry
not interested vs just deleting ...
4 Comments, 66 Views,
11 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Does it ever bother you? 3/7/2013
When a girl acts like she wants it, then says no...
1 Comments, 32 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Please Be Honest 2/28/2013
I have taken out three people I met on AdultFriendFinder. After each date
all three said they would like to go out again. Two of them
ask me out again, I ask the other. Then the same responce,
nothing. Why cant you just be honest and say "No Thank
You". The pain of being ask out and stood up is worse
than being told no thank you.
2 Comments, 49 Views,
22 Votes
,7.21 Score
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Re: Turning down a request 2/1/2013
Just be as honest as possible. If your not comfortable with
a person, let them know that. If your not interested because
of age or distance, let them know that also. This is what
I have done, and it seems to have worked. I do try to answer
all replies, and do it honestly and in a timely manner.
1 Comments, 5 Views,
19 Votes
,5.89 Score
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A good friend wanting more... 12/27/2012
I have a great friend who has decided she wants more out of
a relationship lately. I have always known her as my little
sister but having trouble telling her no. Advice?
1 Comments, 44 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Breaking one of our rules. 12/27/2012
We met a couple here on AdultFriendFinder and conversed several times on
line. After about two weeks, we agreed to meet at a local
hotel bar, with the intent to get a room if everything worked
out. We got there first and watched them walk in, they were
a very attractive couple. They came over and introduced
themselves and we hit it off very well. We were thinking
this is going to be great until they informed ...
2 Comments, 190 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Respect 12/10/2012
Why do some not understand that a simple no means just that...no?
Please people respect is essential if you respect others
you will simply get much further in the lifestyle as well
as in life.
1 Comments, 8 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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