I've reached the point where I can look back and say I've done well... but there's more to do. Commitment-wise, let's go slow and see where things lead. For me a perfect date is a bottle of wine and talking 'til dawn. The philosophy I live by is always keep striving. Goals are checkpoints, not finish lines. I like to make a few fantasies come true for my lovers. If you contact me I might not reply immediately since I'm new to this and still a bit shy. I look forward to hearing from you soon. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it.